Keywords: non-monogamy, polyamory, polyamorous, Dossie Easton, Catherine Liszt, Ethical Slut, Wendy-O Matik, Marcia Munson, Hannah Ho Wai Ling, Chinese, Malaysia, People of Colour, jealousy, internalized racism, body image, open relationships, Sarah Tea-Rex, Montréal, Buffy, transgender, sexual abuse, identity, Germany, Michel Foucault, communication , slut, polyfidelity, polyfuckery, new relationship energy (NRE)